Just before you make that decision to get married and have kids.

1. How much do you earn?

2. Do you know how much the average rent in lagos costs? Or do you plan to bring your wife into daddy's house or you are hoping her rich father will pay your rent?

3. Have you seen the costs of pampers? Do you know how much a full time nanny costs?

4. Montessori nko? You want your child to go to a good school yeah?

5. Feeding? Transportation? Bills? Parties? Outings?

How much have you saved?You earn a meagre salary but you plan to use all your savings for a wedding to feed people who dont give a shit about you. To impress people who will still talk trash about your wedding anyway. To show off to your inlaws? To prove to people that you have arrived? wedding item online store with affordable price

People will insult you abi?

Are they feeding you or fucking you?

Why should their opinion matter?

You can always have a wedding at any fucking time!

Cut your coat according to your size!

Stop wasting money on things you can not afford!

What shall it profit a couple to have an extravagant wedding party only to start their home in a one room face me I face you? I'm not saying you shouldn't have your dream wedding party, please do.
But make sure you can afford it effortlessly without putting a strain on your finances, borrowing or going broke.

A bella naija wedding is not by force!

If your girlfriend is insisting otherwise, you can be sure as hell she is not the one for you!

If you like spend all your money on a stupid wedding, I will come. I will eat your food. I will give you cooler as wedding gift. And if two months later you can not afford rent, I will be the first person to shame you!